I’m Always Angry. How to Stop Being So Angry All the Time One of the causes of divorce is uncontrolled anger on the part of the husband or wife. Here are useful tips to contain and control the anger and save the marriage. Source: Rebecca Temsen <https://www.selfdevelopmentsecrets.com/always-angry-how-to-stop/> In life, we have to put up with… Continue Reading
The Divorce Process
The divorce process – what is entailed Source: https://www.westerncape.gov.za/service/getting-divorced/ A married couple can end their marriage through divorce. The process of the divorce depends on the type of marriage: Civil marriages are dissolved according to the rules in the Divorce Act. Marriages in terms of African Customary Law are dissolved according to the civil law but some of… Continue Reading
Thinking of getting divorced?
How divorce works Once a married couple (whether married according to civil or customary law) has decided to get divorced, the person suing for divorce (the “Plaintiff”) needs to prepare a divorce summons, either through the High Court or the Family Court at a local Magistrates’ Court, suing the other spouse (“the Defendant”). The person… Continue Reading
Customary Marriage and Divorce, how does it work and what is required?
Source: Shando Theron (Theron and Theron’s Divorce and Matrimonial attorneys in Johannesburg) www.divlaw.co.za, shando@divlaw.co.za Introduction: A customary marriage is one where the spouses are married in terms of custom as opposed to the laws of a country, usually referred to a as civil marriage. Civil marriages are registered with home affairs and usually the couple… Continue Reading
Party married according to Islamic law entitled to share of spouse’s pension
The Office of the Pension Funds Adjudicator has reiterated it will not discriminate against parties married under the terms of Islamic law. This position was made clear by Muvhango Lukhaimane in a determination in which she ordered Sanlam’s Staff Umbrella Pension Fund to reverse its earlier decision not to pay a complainant, Ms Z Paulse,… Continue Reading
You & Your Divorce: Coping with the Emotional Fall-Out
This is a freelance article from Gemma Cairns Divorce isn’t easy, especially when there are children involved. With all of the tasks associated with getting a divorce —telling friends and family, dividing assets and possessions, making custody arrangements—there’s a lot to be done. In the midst of all this, it’s hard for busy parents to get… Continue Reading
You are not allowed to see your children – so what now? (written by Shando Theron)
Let’s set the scene: For sake of convenience I am going to assign gender roles along the more common situation, being that the woman is the custodial parent (the one with whom the children live) and the man is the parent that is being denied access, wants more access or access to his children on… Continue Reading
Your marriage has fallen apart, what now? (written by Shando Theron)
Even though it may feel that your world is falling apart, in truth it’s not, if you look around you, 3 out of 5 people that you can see have, or will, go through the same situation. The bottom line is all marriages will one day come to an end, either by death or by… Continue Reading
He or she broke up my marriage – what now: (written by Shando Theron)
Let’s set the scene: A Matrimonial / Divorce Lawyer quite often is confronted at the first consultation by a client that blames the breakdown of the marriage on their adulterous spouse but more so on a third party, i.e. the party with whom the adulterous spouse committed the adultery. The client then wants to exact… Continue Reading
What to Tell Your Children When You’re Divorcing
HOW CAN WE PREPARE OUR KIDS FOR DIVORCE? The Lucy Daniels Center Q: We are the parents of a 4-year-old girl and a 7-year-old son who do not know about our plans to separate and divorce. We worry about how our divorce will affect them. Do you have any suggestions about how to reduce the impact?… Continue Reading
